Serenity Prayer for Writers

Reinhold Niebuhr wrote The Serenity Prayer which was printed on plaques, books, cups, and other items a few decades ago. That little piece of writing has helped people endure everything from the daily grind to the desire for a shot of booze

A few years ago I took the thought of Niebuhr's Serenity Prayer and created my own Serenity Prayer For Writers. I usually print it on cards and send to writing friends. I also share it with online friends like you.

Perhaps this bit of wisdom will help you in the New Year when faced with bumps along the writing road or the road that runs through your personal life.

A Serenity Prayer for Writers © 2006 by Joan Reeves

God grant me the Serenity to accept rejection of manuscripts and the lagging sales of books over which I've sweated blood and wept tears; the Courage to revise and try again; and the Wisdom to know the difference between those that might fetch contracts and sales and those that need to be mourned, buried, and forgotten. Amen

Takeaway Truth

Let's ROCK 2013 and use each day effectively. Write hard. Live free.rtrt5r

New Year Thoughts

Tomorrow we'll all be gearing up for the annual bacchanalia known as New Year's Eve.

We women will be slipping into our slinky sexy party dresses, stepping into heels too high, and adding a bit more makeup to our faces.Men will be doing something similar so they'll look their best on the night that features a kiss at the stroke of midnight.Some of us will drink too much and stay up too late. Others will be reasonable and rational and will abstain from excesses of any kind.

All of us will wonder, when we open our eyes on January 1, what the New Year holds for us.I like to think of the New Year as a book whose pages haven't been written yet.

English poet Edith Lovejoy Pierce said: "We will open the book. Its pages are blank. We are going to put words on them ourselves. The book is called Opportunity, and its first chapter is New Year's Day."

Takeaway Truth

If the New Year is an unwritten book and you are the author, then write hard. Live with joy. Live free.

Review: Simply Irresistible by Rachel Gibson

I spent most of the second half of December with one of the worst sinus infections I've ever had. That meant a lot of down time feeling too ill to do much of anything except watch TV or read. My choice -- always -- is to read, as long as I have the energy to hold a book or my Kindle.

When I feel lousy, I often want a comfort read. That usually means reading a book from my keeper shelf. Many of these books are older books. When I decide to re-read one of these, I always check the Kindle store to see if the ebook edition is reasonably priced. If it is, I buy it for my Kindle because I find that reading on my Kindle is much more convenient.

I was happy to see that Simply Irresistible (Book 1, Chinooks Hockey Team) was priced low. In fact, today, as I write this, the book is only $.89.

This book is simply delightful in so many ways. From the beginning, if you're a thinking woman, you may not like the heroine very much. On the surface, she seems to be vacuous -- as close to an Anna Nicole-type as a woman could possibly be. In other words, she's not the kind of woman most of us would want for a friend.

That's on the surface, and, as we all know, what's under the surface is what makes for an interesting story either in true life or fiction. What's beneath the surface of heroine Georgeanne Howard and hockey superstar John Kowalsky is what makes this romance a cut above the ordinary.

Ten years ago when they meet, Georgeanne is a woman looking for someone to take care of her because she can't take care of herself. That's what she's always been told so it must be true. Right?

Ten years ago John Kowalsky is the bad boy of hockey who drinks too much and sleeps around too much. To him, Georgeanne is just the latest in a long line of easy lays.

The night they meet changes Georgeanne's life. When she and Kowalsky meet again, they're each different, but one thing that hasn't changed is the instant attraction they hold for each other. But, Georgeanne has a secret that trumps mere desire, and she's desperate to keep that secret from John.

This novel is full of character growth, emotional angst, humor, and hot desire. I enjoyed the re-read so much that I also bought the other ebooks in the Chinook Hockey series for my Kindle and read them too while I was sick.

By The Way

As is my custom when I review ebooks, I give the Kindle Buy Links or the Audible Buy Links since I read most books on my Kindle or listen to them on my iPod or iPhone after purchasing from Audible. However, I'm certain every book I review is available at most ebook sellers, and audio books are also on iTunes so look for them on the platforms that match your ebook reading or your buying preference. (Click here to shop for your very own Kindle.)

Takeaway Truth

Re-reading a book is like visiting an old friend.

Don't Ride The Doom Train

That pesky Mayan Prophecy, inscribed in stone as shown at left, has probably created anxiety in many people. I guess if the world didn't end on the 21st, you are still around to read this blog post.

A lot of people ride the Doom Train. A whole bunch of them gathered in Bugarach since that French village is supposed to survive the apocalypse.

A lot of authors invest in doom and gloom. They have lifetime passes on the Doom Train, as I call it.

I'm rather certain that you've seen the latest "the sky is falling" articles. One in particular that has been posted to every author's forum I'm on asserts that Amazon is out to kill indies and predicts that only the big 6 publishers will rule the bestseller lists in the near future.

Every week, I see stuff like this. You probably do also. If you're already a bit depressed about declining sales, it's easy to buy a ticket on the doom train, and it's even easier to feel that you're going to fail no matter what you do. Or don't do.

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Reality Check

Let me be your reality check so you can perhaps relax and embrace the New Year.

1. Yes, indies don't get the concessions and benefits they offer big traditional publishers. No, that doesn't mean you can't make a living as an indie publisher.

Sure, I suspect that Amazon and big publishers have some kind of mutually beneficial relationship. Since I'm not privy to their contracts, I don't know for sure. I do know that you can't let stuff like that sabotage your efforts. You're an author. You'll always be an underdog. Only the tiniest percent of authors are anything but underdogs. So just accept that going in and deal with it.

2. Yes, I believe that we indies fueled the demand for the Kindle just as I believe we indies are building the audience for audio books for Audible. No, they're not going to give us -- or at least the vast majority of us -- special benefits or breaks because there's no tangible benefit we can give Amazon in return other than continuing to use KDP.

That doesn't mean you should give up or be bitter. This is the best time ever to be a writer. You can put your work directly in front of an audience, and you don't have to meet some insane number of sales to keep doing that same thing. Most writers, if they're competent and savvy about marketing, can make a very good living doing this -- at least as good as they would make as a mid-list author with a publisher.

3. Yes, the Prime Select program is an attempt to maintain a majority stake in the ebook market. Amazon once had 90% of that market. Now it's more like 65% I think. No, that doesn't mean you have to enroll your book in Prime Select. For some, it makes sense. For others, it doesn't. Try it and assess the results for yourself.

4. Yes, Amazon will continue trying to enroll authors in Prime Select, i.e., giving only 35% royalty on India sales UNLESS you're in Prime Select. I think the other countries that have come online or set up that same way. No, you shouldn't panic. Be realistic. Are you such a household name worldwide that you're missing big earnings by not getting 70% royalties in India or Brazil or Japan? You can probably look for more restrictions like this as they continue their effort to corner the market.

Emulate Amazon

Amazon is always testing to see what will appreciably benefit their bottom line. You should be doing the same. Spend more time analyzing your marketing efforts from the book cover to the product description and less time reading the doom and gloom forecasts of every Chicken Little blogger. The sky is NOT falling. It may be darkening with thunder clouds so now is the time to seek shelter by making sure each of your books is the absolute best marketing package it can be.

Spend more time analyzing your promotion efforts. Learn how to use social media appropriately if you want to go that route. Learn how to increase your Name Recognition because that will pay more rewards than just about anything.

Takeaway Truth

In the end, the only thing an author can do to ensure success is write. Get more books out there. Don't put all your eggs in one basket. Put your books with all the ebook sellers if you decide to abstain from Prime Select. Promote your books on other ebook sellers. Build those audiences. And don't worry about what you can't control.

Nikki Lynn Barrett: T-Shirt Inspiration

We're sliding toward New Year's, but Christmas is still in our minds and hearts. Nikki Lynn Barrett, author of The Secret Santa Wishing Well, is visiting SlingWords today.

Nikki lives in Arizona with her husband and son. She's an avid reader, a dreamer, and loves everything about books. Nikki runs a book blog, an online used bookstore, and writes various genres of romance. When a storm is near, you'll find Nikki outside with her camera, snapping photo after photo. She said that her dreams of becoming a writer started when she was young, when she started writing books in one subject notebooks by the fifth grade. The Secret Santa Wishing Well is her debut novel.

You can find Nikki at her blog and on Facebook. Her book is available at the Kindle Shop and at Barnes and Noble.

T-Shirt Inspiration
by Nikki Lynn Barrett

Hi everyone! My name is Nikki Lynn Barrett, and I'm a newly published author. I love saying that, by the way. It's a great feeling and wonderful accomplishment. Indeed! I write in various genres, but I debuted with a contemporary Christmas romance.

Writer's T-Shirts

You know how shirts with sayings on them are popular? How many writers actually go out and look for them and would wear one? Here are a few lines on shirts that suit me as a writer.

You're wrong. I write.

Writer's Block: When your imaginary friends refuse to talk to you (Ah, yes, I know that one well!)

Advice for Writers: If a word escapes you, obviously you didn't have it properly and securely restrained.

I'm a writer. Everything you say or do may end up in my novel

Never wrong a writer. They get their revenge in print.

Being a good writer is 3% talent, 97% not being distracted by the internet (It's okay, you're supposed to be here on this blog today, reading these! *Wink* )

I'm plotting against you. I'm a writer, it's what I do.

Future Bestselling Author

What does not kill me ... makes a good plot point in my next book.

Those are just a few of the fun ones I've found. Would you ever wear one? What kind of writer saying would YOU like on a shirt?

While you mull over that question, here's a blurb for my Christmas Romance The Secret Santa Wishing Well.

The magic of Christmas has been lost to Jacob Winston. At the suggestion of his ill sister, Jacob takes a job as a Secret Santa at the mall, hoping to restore his Christmas spirit. Even that doesn't seem to work, until a special little boy ambles up to make a very special wish.

Cheyenne Jensen is struggling to raise her two kids without the help of her ex-husband who refuses to acknowledge his daughter's existence and doesn't provide for the son he does acknowledge. This Christmas is shaping up to be as heartbreaking as the last, until her son Ben's kind actions lead a stranger to them.

Ah, but it's Christmas time and the magic has begun.

When Jacob and Cheyenne meet, neither can deny their immediate attraction to one another. As situations arise that require they spend more time together, their feelings grow stronger and stronger.

With Christmas fast approaching, the pair learn what matters most in life. Now, if only they could ditch the ghost of Christmases past.Maybe this holiday will bring some wishes come true -- for everyone after all.

Takeaway Truth

Thanks, Nikki! Happy Holidays to you and all of the SlingWords readers!

Peace On Earth

"Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace, good will toward men." ~ Luke 2:14 (King James 2000 Bible (©2003)

Takeaway Truth

Merry Christmas to all.

Review: No Easy Day

No Easy Day? Excellent title for an excellent account of an important moment of justice in our history.

This is for the audio book edition of No Easy Day: The Firsthand Account of the Mission That Killed Osama Bin Laden by Mark Owen with Kevin Maurer, narrated by Holter Graham.

For you ebook enthusiasts: No Easy Day, Kindle Edition

For hardcover enthusiasts: No Easy Day, Hardcover Edition

As is my custom when I review ebooks, I give the Kindle Buy Links or the Audible Buy Links since I read most books on my Kindle or listen to them on my iPod or iPhone after purchasing from Audible. However, I'm certain every book I review is available at most ebook sellers, and audio books are also on iTunes so look for them on the platforms that match your ebook reading or your buying preference. (Click here to shop for your very own Kindle.)

This was the third Navy SEAL memoir my darling hubby and I have listened to. Ripped from the headlines doesn't begin to describe the drama of this first-person account from Mark Owen, a Navy SEAL who participated in the mission.

Narration

Holter Graham is an accomplished actor that you've probably seen in movies, television, or on stage. He's narrated many books and brings his experience and talent to No Easy Day, breathing life into this memoir.

About The Book

Owen gives background information about what it was really like in Iraq and about the daring rescue of Captain Richard Phillips in the Indian Ocean. He takes you from the mountains of Afghanistan to the thwarted efforts to bring Osama Bin Laden to justice until finally that priority mission was accomplished.

Owen gives a step by step narrative of the assault he and the other handpicked members of the 24-man team accomplished. Many times, it seemed like Mission Impossible, but these highly-trained, dedicated operatives did accomplish it at great risk to their own lives. The assault didn't go perfectly, but it probably went as well as could be expected given the unpredictability of Fate.

Again, I felt humbled by the dedication and service of these remarkable men. If I were ever kidnapped and held hostage, I'd want a "Get out of Hell" card from these guys.

Takeaway Truth

Highly recommended to anyone interested in the truth of what's really going on "over there," this excellent account of a seminal moment of justice in our history is spell-binding.