Think As You Wake

In Darling Hubby's Happy Friday post, I read this quote and liked it so much that I'm sharing it here with you.

These wise words came from the Dalai Lama. I'm sorry. I don't know which incarnation of the Dalai Lama said it.

In case you don't know exactly who the Dalai Lama is, he is the highest spiritual leader and head of Tibetan Buddhism. The current Dalai Lama is the 14th, and he is 90 years old.

The Dalai Lama served as the resident spiritual and temporal leader of Tibet before 1959.

After that year, he led the Tibetan government in exile as represented by the Central Tibetan Administration in Dharamsala, India.

Now you know who he is so let me share what he said. 

"Every day, think as you wake up, today I am fortunate to be alive, I have a precious human life, I am not going to waste it. I am going to use all my energies to develop myself, to expand my heart out to others; to achieve enlightenment for the benefit of all beings. I am going to have kind thoughts towards 
others, I am not going to get angry or think badly about others. I am going to benefit others as much as I can."

I'd like to take that apart and present each thought separtely and put a personal emphasis on his words. 

As you wake up each day, think these thoughts.

I am fortunate to be alive.

I AM a precious human life.

I am not going to waste my life.

I am going to use all my energies to develop myself.

I am going to use all my energies to expand my heart out to other.

I am going to use all my energies to achieve enlightenment for the benefit of all beings.

I am going to have kind thoughts toward others.

I am not going to get angry at other people or think badly of them.

I am going to benefit others as much as I can.

TAKEAWAY TRUTH

Those are wise words that I hope you take to heart. They're another way of saying, "Be a blessing to others." Have a lovely Sunday.

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Saturday Share - Recipe - Blueberry Syrup

When you were a kid, did your parents take you to Denny's or IHop or one of the other diners famous for serving breakfast?

The pancakes were always light and fluffy and were served with a choice of syrups. My favorite was Blueberry Syrup. Butter melting on a short stack with blueberry syrup running down the sides of the golden brown pancakes.

Yummy delicious.

Today, I have the recipe for making Blueberry Syrup. It's super easy and takes only 4 ingredients. Why not make some today and have pancakes for Sunday breakfast?

BLUEBERRY SYRUP

 Ingredients

  • 16 ounces of frozen blueberries, thawed, or 1 16-ounce can
  • 1/2 cup of pure maple syrup
  • 1/2 teaspoon fresh lemon juice
  • pinch of salt
Directions

1. Into a blender jar, place all the ingredients.
2. Using the liquefy setting, blend for 30 seconds.
3. Pour into a saucepan and bring to a boil.
4. Cook for 5 minutes, stirring to keep it from scorching and sticking.
5. Serve immediately or pour into a container and store in the fridge. Before serving, simply microwave to warm the syrup.
6. Makes 2 cups. You shouldn't have any seeds after liquefying, but if you do, strain the syrup.

TAKEAWAY TRUTH

I'll confess that sometimes after a very busy day, I'll make pancakes for dinner because they're a crowd-pleaser.


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10 Ways NOT to Succeed

 I've been trying to write this book since the beginning of the year.

Trying to write a book is vastly different from writing a book.

To quote that famous philospher: "Do or do not. There is no try." —Yoda

With a new month started, I was so disgusted with so little progress that I read a post I wrote many years ago. I needed that reminder of certain truths I know. but am consistently ignoring.

Reading it helped me so maybe it will help you if you have a project that you just can't seem to bring to completion. Just substitute the name of your project where I call it Book and Writing.

Peck,peck,peck.
10 WAYS NOT TO SUCCEED

1. Wait until everything in your life is perfect before starting.

2. If started, wait each day until all the other nitpicky things of daily life have been done before you tackle your writing.

3. Write only when you feel like it rather than establishing a weekly quota of pages or words produced.

4. Write and rewrite the first chapter, not moving ahead until you have the beginning done to perfection.

5. Find a way to procrastinate. For instance, when you finally get to a new chapter, decide it's time to design the cover art. Get lost in that project and drown in indecision until the month is over. Then go back to the manuscript at which point you've lost your enthusiasm for the project.

6. Wallow in indecision about the story, the genre, the marketability, the cover—even after you've had a dozen created—rather than moving forward because that's so much easier than facing the blank page each day.

7. Take on a volunteer project that benefits all of your friends because you feel it must be done as soon as possible rather than procrastinating on it to write a book which is such hard work.

8. Take on another volunteer project because you finished the previous one.

9. Realize that you have 2 trips coming up so you know you won't get the book finished before then so set it aside to get your hair done, a mani-pedi, and new shorts and tops or whatever you think must be done now, now, now.

10. When you think about your work in progress, you get depressed so stop thinking about it. Watch some captivating documentary on TV when the itch to write makes you uncomfortable.

Depressing? You betcha. Fortunately, you'll eventually come to your senses and start saying NO to anything that isn't writing the book. You'll go to your office, give yourself a stern lecture, and start writing.

TAKEAWY TRUTH

Thomas Carlyle said, "Our main business is NOT to see what lies dimly at a distance, but to do what lies clearly at hand." That means FOCUS on what you set out to do, and get it done. That's what I'm doing now. I'm writing, NOT trying to write.


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Patches of Red - New Book by Liz Flaherty

Today, I'm pleased to welcome one of my favorite authors to SlingWords—LIZ FLAHERTY.

Liz is one of the Romance Gems Authors on a popular Facebook Group, Romance Gems...Where Authors and Readers Meet.

 She posts to the Romance Gems page at least once a month so drop and say hello some time.

MORE ABOUT LIZ

Grab your favorite morning beverage and say hello to Liz who thinks one of the things that keeps you young when you quite obviously aren’t anymore is the constant opportunity you have to reinvent yourself.

Liz's latest professional incarnation is as a women’s fiction author and she is enjoying every minute that she’s not scared to death.  

Liz invites you to visit her online at her Website or at her Facebook Page.

To find out more about her published books, click to visit her Amazon Author Page. If you'd like to email her, she can be reached at lizkflaherty@gmail.com.

If you read my post about the first book, Pieces of Blue, you'll be familiar with her series. I asked Liz to tell me about her new book, PATCHES OF RED. It's Book 2 in her series, Colors, the Harper Loch Trilogy.

LIZ SAID...

When I started writing Patches of Red, Book 2 in Colors, the Harper Loch Trilogy, the Lovin’ Spoonful song, Darling Be Home Soon came into my mind for the first time in … oh, a really long time, and made itself right at home. Every day for I’m not sure how long, the tune slipped into my consciousness. 

This isn’t a complete surprise. The Lovin’ Spoonful’s music was an important and much loved part of my late teenage years and lead singer John Sebastion is still one of the greater unrequited crushes of my life.  

What is a complete surprise is how much music affects my writing, how the melody and the lyrics will tumble between lines and make suggestions not of their use, but of the emotions they share. The way they soften sharp edges, and ease the tension in the back of my neck when I find myself deleting more words than I’ve added. What makes it surprising is that I can’t write at all while music’s playing or the TV’s on. I lost that ability when the last kid left for college and the nest grew empty and quiet.

But, oh, the songs. The Spoonful’s breakout hit was Do You Believe in Magic? I don’t think I did—believe in it, I mean—when the song came out, but I learned to as I grew older. When sharp, shattered pieces of life somehow came together to create smooth mosaics of knowledge gained and achievement earned and love winning. The things romance novels are made of. 

I seldom write straight romance anymore, but my women’s fiction titles contain love stories that bring their couples home, finding magic along the way, and creating their own mosaics and melodies. I am thankful for the stories and for the songs. And, maybe a little, for that unrequited crush on John Sebastian.

ABOUT PATCHES OF RED

He’s handsome but couldn’t even remember her name.

She’s pretty, but her finickiness drives him crazy. And yet … 

After twenty years as a nurse practitioner in the same practice, Ellie Wentz gives notice. When office politics interferes with her job, it’s time to get a new one. When her son and daughter-in-law buy her house and she has sold and given away everything else that’s not attached to her heartstrings, she packs up what remains and goes to Harper Loch to spend time with her best friend. She’ll decide what to do and where to go from there. No matter how much the handsome friend of her friends annoys her.

Jesse Grant comes to Harper Loch to help out his niece for a few weeks. He’s retired from the navy, his boys are grown, and he’s at loose ends. But he really likes the little lake community in Michigan—he thinks he might stay. Long widowed, he has no interest in getting married again, and neither does the redhead he can’t seem to avoid. And yet … again.

In case you already know you want this book, you can find it at Amazon

To find it at several other online booksellers, visit Draft2Digital.

BONUS: EXCERPT FROM PATCHES OF RED

He drew in a deep breath, absorbing the combination of smells she was noticing. “I like this time of year.”

He was surprised that he still did. There were rough days, like this one, times when Grace’s suffering in memory came close to breaking him as certainly as it had in real time. 

“Oh, me, too. I even like winter, although I’m not so sure I’ll be crazy about it when it snows. How will I get to the shop?”

“Sam says the Crossleys plow snow in the driveways and on Enoch Trace around the lake. I’m not sure about getting to the highway on Harper Loch Road, though. That could be iffy.” He couldn’t find it in himself to worry about something that hadn’t happened yet—he was having enough trouble not worrying about what already had. “You’ve got a while to think about it, I think.” He could hear the edge in his own voice. 

“I’m not really concerned.” She was silent, but not for long. “I just talk sometimes without thinking it might be annoying. I believe that’s where we are tonight, isn’t it?”

He didn’t know how to answer that. She was right. Although he liked her being there with him, he didn’t want to talk. He didn’t want her to talk. But how did he explain that without sounding like a total horse’s behind?

“Maybe,” he said, without looking at her, and they rode on in silence. 

When they’d started the ride, he’d intended to go back and check on the progress of the pumpkin patch, look at the Christmas trees, and make scary jokes about things hiding in the cornfield, but he didn’t do any of those things. He just turned the Mule around at the wide spot created by the other lane crossing the one beside the ditch. 

“It’s a bad day,” he said finally, when they were on Enoch Trace heading toward her cottage. “Grace passed sixteen years ago today, after the longest, hardest week I’ve ever known. I didn’t want to be alone, but it would have been better if I was. I’m not good to be around.” He couldn’t make himself apologize—it would be like saying he was sorry he’d loved someone so much that remembering her death was like an open wound. 

Ellie nodded, not breaking her silence. She laid her hand on his on the steering wheel, and when she went to withdraw her fingers, he caught and held them for a minute, until he pulled up in front of her house. 

He got out of the cart to walk her to her door, because that’s how Lessie had taught him to treat a woman, and when he walked around, Ellie reached and put her arms around him. She still didn’t talk, just held him there in the sweet smell and clear moonlight of September. 

For just a moment, long enough he thought she surely noticed it, he stood stiff in her embrace, and then he returned it, wrapping his arms around her and resting his face against her soft hair. 

Nothing would ever have been enough to get him easily through this long hard day, but she offered what comfort she could, and he accepted it and was grateful. 

When he went to bed after texting with Zack and Luke, for the first time on this day in those sixteen years he’d mentioned, he remembered—instead of Grace’s death—her life.

TAKEAWAY TRUTH

This book sounds amazing. Let me give those buy links again. Click to buy from Amazon

Click to buy from other booksellers via Draft2Digital


Peace, Quiet, Soul Nourishment

Do I have any profound thoughts to share today? Not really. 

The next couple of weeks are vacation weeks for us.

We went to Louisiana for a few days for my annual summer siblings reunion.

My older brother lives on a farm in Louisiana so Darling Hubby and I drove to his home. My younger brother and his wife drove from Colorado with their RV in tow.

It's great to get together with them plus my nephews and their kids.

Mornings at the farm are glorious. No traffic noise. No sounds except for the birds singing in the the giant magnolia tree and in the elms and oaks and the rustle of foliage as the morning breeze brushes across the the soybeans and corn planted in the fields. Clouds obscure the sun, and a little mist hovers above the crops. The air is clean and pure.

The peace and quiet is stunning. Wonderful.  

TAKEAWAY TRUTH

It nourishes my soul.

Review - Unfamiliar on Netflix

If you don't watch foreign films, you're missing some amazing movies and TV shows. For instance, have you watched UNFAMILIAR, on Netflix? If not, you're missing a stunning action series.

The great thing about streaming services is you can not only see it with English sub-titles, you can also select to watch with English Audio turned on.

Unfamiliar is a spy thriller with a convoluted plot that will keep you guessing all the way through. It's a 6-episode German thriller involving 2 former government agents, Meret and Simon, who run a secret safe house in Berlin.

A deadly threat from their past resurfaces on their daughter's birthday, and they end up running for their lives from assassins, the BND (German Intelligence Agency), and Russian agents. 

The series is addictive, and the ending makes you scream for more. Unfortunately, Netflix has not renewed the series yet, but a second season may happen since the show performed well globally.

If it is renewed, a second season would probably be released in early 2027.

TAKEAWAY TRUTH

Watch Unfamiliar, and if you like it, be sure and give it a thumbs up. Viewership determines the future of any streaming series.

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Monday Magic - Free Media Player

Media players seem to be a dime a dozen on the internet. Maybe that's because what 1 user loves, another hates.

Here's another one for your consideration that plays video files and also audio files for your favorite music and podcasts.

VLC Media Player is an open source media player that's simple, fast, and powerful. 

More importantly it plays everything but Blu-ray movies. If you're looking for something that will play videos, audio files, Webcams, Devices and Streams, this may be it.

VLC Media Player plays most codecs with no codec packs needed: MPEG-2, MPEG-4, H.264, MKV, WebM, WMV, MP3, and it runs on all platforms: Windows, Linux, Mac OS X, Unix, iOS, and Android. You can also customize the look of it if that's important to you.

TAKEAWAY TRUTH

This open source media player is completely free and contains no spyware, ads, or user tracking. Give it a try. If you love it, come back and leave a comment about it.


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