Quote from Desiderata

I unpacked the last box today and found the wooden plaque on which the Desiderata was laminated.

I've had this for years. I always hang it in a location in the house where we can read it frequently.

Written by Max Ehrmann (1872-1945) in the 1920's,  the Desiderata—Latin for things desired—this poem grew in popularity over the years especially in the "hippie" era which is when I bought the plaque I have.

Unfortunately, Ehrmann forfeited his copyright of the material because of free distribution in several projects.

(Authors should read the Wiki about it contains the full story of how it lost its copyright status and became part of pop culture.)

The truth of what Ehrmann wrote touches still inspires and brings comfort.

You can find the Desiderata in framed, ready to hang art suitable for any style of decorating on Amazon. I think I'm giving framed copies of the Desiderata as Christmas gifts this year.

Here are the opening sentences of the Desiderata.

"Go placidly amid the noise and the haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons."

Takeaway Truth

Keep those words in mind as you go through this week.

Saturday Share Recipe: Easiest Slow Cooker Chicken

If you've got a slow cooker and a chicken, pull both out and get ready to cook some comfort food. Defrost the chicken and start preparing this recipe.

Timing is everything. With a slow cooker, it takes 5-7 hours on low or 4-6 hours on high.

By the way, if you wonder why I frequently post a recipe on Saturday, it's because I think everyone should know how to cook.

It's an art that's easy to master, and the rewards are great. Most dishes are easy to cook. It usually takes no more time to cook a simple meal than it takes to pick up  orders at the curb ir drive-thru and heading home to reheat the food before you dine.

A side benefit is that cooking at home is much less expensive than eating out or picking up food even at the deli. 

Slow cookers make dinner easy with a minimum prep time required. If you don't have a slow cooker, they come in many brands, sizes, and upgrades. I have a Crock Pot that's lasted me years. It's only upgrade is that the crock is removable. 

Try some of the easy recipes I offer like today's "fix it and forget it" slow cooker recipe. 

CrockPot Chicken

Ingredients

1 medium onion, diced
1-2 stalks of celery, sliced
2-3 carrots, sliced
1/2 cup baby bella mushrooms, chopped (you can use 1 small can of mushrooms drained)
1 can cream of mushroom soup
1 pound chicken thighs with bones and skin
1/2 cup chicken broth
salt, pepper, and flour
2 tablespoons vegetable oil

Instructions

1. Wash and pat dry the chicken thighs. Trim off excess fat and extra skin but keep skin covering the meat.
2. Begin heating the oil in a skillet while you salt and pepper the chicken on both sides.
3. Dredge the chicken pieces in flour then place in the hot oil and brown on both sides.
4. Remove the chicken pieces. Reduce the heat and add all the vegetables. Saute 3-4 minutes until they're soft but not brown.
5. Place the chicken in your slow cooker then scoop out the vegetables from the saute pan and place on top of the chicken.
6. Mix the soup and the broth together and pour over the chicken.
7. Cook on low 5-7 hours or on high 4-6 hours. 
8. When at the low end of the cooking cycle, use a meat thermometer to check for doneness. Don't overcook or it will be mush.
9. Remove the chicken to a serving platter and remove the skin from the chicken. You cook it on the chicken to create the most flavor.
10. Pour the sauce including the vegetables into a bowl for serving with rice. You can also serve with noodles or mashed potatoes if you wish.

This easy and delicious entree makes 4 man-size servings or 6 regular servings.

Takeaway Truth

This is comfort food at its most flavorful. Btw, the except fat and skin you remove from the thighs can be added to your next batch of stock or bone broth.

Review: Locke & Key

At last, Netflix has released a new season of one of their popular series.

Season 2 of Locke & Key was released last week. Darling Hubby and I binge-watched it this week.

If you haven't heard about Locke & Key, it's a Netflix original series that deuted last year.

Locke & Key, the TV series, is based on is an American comic book series written by Joe Hill, illustrated by Gabriel Rodriguez, and published by IDW Publishing.

Quick 2 Cents

Imaginative with a compelling storyline. You'll want to watch this from Season 1, Episode 1 in order to understand the mythic world created in Locke & Key.

Each episode builds upon the previous ones, and the cliffhanger at the end of Season 1 will make you immediately want to begin Season 2. Of course, there's a cliffhanger, but don't let that deter you. Even the cliffhanger is satisfying in a humorously macabre way.

The Premise

The story shifts back and forth from current reality to memories of the past. A guidance counselor is murdered by a studient. Trying to move forward and leave the past behind, his widow moves their three children from Seattle back to Massachusetts where her husband grew up.

To their surprise, the family home is a Victorian mansion with as many secrets as there are rooms. Magic lives in Keyhouse, but the children—2 teens and a youngster—are the only ones who realize it. Adults can't. In fact, their conscious minds rationalize every odd occurence.

From that jumping off point, the story expands wtih dramatic highs and lows and magical events. As with anything "special" there's a price to pay, and they learn the price can be high.

Throw in a portal to another dimension, a psychopathic killer, demon possession, teen love and angst, and those in the know recognize that the fate of the world hangs in the balance.

Locks and keys abound in this series. You'll find yourself wishing you had some of these keys.

Spoiler Alert

Check out the list of all of the keys and what  they do on the Locke & Key Wiki.

The Cast

Connor Jessup as Tyler Locke, the oldest of the 3 kids.

Emilia Jones as Kinsey Locke, the daughter who's the middle child.

Jackson Robert Scott as Bode Locke, the precocious youngest child who seems smarter and more intuitive than anyone else in the series.

Darby Stanchfield as Nina Locke, the long-suffering mother who hasn't a clue.

Laysla de Oliveira as Dodge whose beauty hides her evil heart.

Griffin Gluck as Gabe, one of the boys who falls for Kinsey.

You'll recognize many of the other members of the cast which is believable in their roles.

Bottom Line

Compelling story with great visual imagery, imaginative storyline, believable characters, some great special effects, and a narrative that makes you beg for more. 

All of it makes you overlook some of the inconsistencies you'll note as well as elements "borrowed" from other media.

Takeaway Truth

Absolutely 2 thumbs up. You'll want to watch the whole 2 seasons again in order to catch some elements you may have missed with the first watching. You'll like this!



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3 Great Personal Growth Videos

YouTube has millions of videos and countless numbers of them tell viewers how to feel better emotionally, how to overcome obstacles, how to achieve goals, etc.

We're all works in progress.

Like many of you, when I'm tackling something new, I armor myself with optimism, affirmations, a plan of attack, and anything else I think will help me achieve something new and/or different.

I stumbled across some trending videos on YouTube the other day, and I was struck by how common sense, articulate, and, well, doable the ideas expressed in them were.

Of course, I want to share them with everyone. Let me know what you think about them.

(1) What's Wrong With an Ordinary Life by Alain de Botton — Wow. Finally, someone says out loud that it's okay not to be a super star, a Steve Jobs, or an 18-year-old wunderkind. That living an ordinary life can be fulfilling and rewarding.

(2) How Changing Your Story Can Change Your Life by Dr. Bruce Lipton — Super Wow! This video addresses what holds each of us back: the self-identity held by our subconscious. This is our basic unconscious view of ourselves.

(3) The 2 Minute Rule Will Quickly Change Your Life by James Clear — Having a hard time just getting started on something you know you want to achieve? Here is the simplest way I've ever heard of to make yourself to take action.

I was so taken with the ideas in Bruce Lipton's video that I went to Amazon to find his books.

The Biology of Belief is the result of what Lipton discovered with his scientific research on how cells control their physiology and behavior. 

Takeaway Truth

These 3 videos come from the Fight Mediocrity Channel. 

I encourage you to visit the channel and make a playlist using the videos that might assist you in your journey.


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Window Over the Desk by Liz Flaherty

I'm thrilled to welcome my friend Liz Flaherty to SlingWords.

Liz is one of my favorite authors whether I'm reading a romance she's written or her blog Window Over the Sink.

Today, Liz is sharing an excerpt from her new book Window Over the Desk.

Come along with me and let me introduce you to Liz and to her new book.

Meet Liz Flaherty

Retired from the post office, Liz Flaherty spends non-writing time sewing, quilting, and wanting to travel. The author of 20-some books and her husband Duane share an old farmhouse in North Central Indiana that they talk about leaving.

However, that would require clearing baseball trophies from the attic and dusting the pictures of the Magnificent Seven, their grandchildren, so they’ll probably stay where they are.


“I love the opening scene. In my mind, it’s full and rich and will hook a reader so absolutely that she will be unable to stop reading even to go to work or fold the laundry.

"In quilting, when you sew a seam, you “set” it with the iron so it’s flat and flawless (in theory). My first scene is that to me. It sets the story on my heart so I have to tell it.

"It acquaints me with the people in the story, with the house’s front porch, with the dog named Ma...with the dog.

"Usually, by the time the book is done, the opening scene is either gone or rewritten beyond recognition. Doesn’t matter—it set the seam.” – Liz Flaherty, Window Over the Desk

Genesis of Window Over the Desk

In 2020, I released the first collection of Window Over the Sink columns. It was for my family, really, and to give my own ego a boost. (Any writer who says she doesn’t need that now and then is lying, by the way.)

It was so much fun.

Which is why I decided to open the Window Over the Desk. My view out this particular window is a favorite—even today, when I’m drying…things…on the clothesline. Also today, the hay bales in the field that have given me pleasure for several weeks have been gathered and stored for the long winter.

I hope the essays in this book give you some pleasant reading time over that winter. I hope they make you remember things, laugh sometimes, and refill your cup and sit down and read “just one more.”

As I mention way more often than is necessary, I’m kind of old. The years have dimmed some reflections through the window, brightened others, and changed a whole bunch of them. What a trip it’s been.

So many of my columns and blogs over the years have been about writing, and I tried to leave them out of the books of essays. 

However, about halfway through the last book, I realized I was leaving out not only essays I valued, but an integral part of myself.

So, in Window Over the Desk, there are several chapters dedicated to writers, to writing, to talking about quitting writing, to how much I hate writing, and how much I love it. I think every writer I know will identify with The Writing Pane, and I hope everyone else enjoys it, too.

Thanks—again—for joining me on the journey.

Giveaway! Giveaway!

Liz is giving away a Christmas ornament and a backlist paperback to a commenter who shares her favorite Christmas movie with us. 

To enter, all you need to do is leave a comment with your email addy written out, not as a hot link.

Liz will select a winner by random draw and notify the lucky reader by email.

Excerpt from Window Over the Desk

I thought for a long time that in order for my work to be credible, someone needed to be reading it. Someone needed to be paying me for it. Those are things I would always prefer, but credibility comes from within, doesn’t it? Do I write better when I have an audience? Yeah, I think so. Do I write better if there’s a paycheck attached? Not always. So, no, I won’t retire until I can’t operate a keyboard anymore.

You don’t “get over” losing people, do you? I think it gets better, but the getting better takes effort. It doesn’t mean you don’t talk about the ones you loved or that you don’t remember things. It doesn’t even mean you remember only the good things. What it means is, if they had a place in your heart while they were living, they still have it.

Having an empty nest means your life is, for the most part, your own again, and it’s up to you what you make of it. For us, live music, coffee shops, and writers’ groups have been new and exciting beginnings, including the friends, experiences, and good times I mentioned above.

Not being ready doesn’t stop things from happening. Life doesn’t go on hold until you’re ready to start living it again. It stops briefly, breathlessly, and waits for you to catch up. Do that. Don’t let it go on without you.

Add Liz's New Book to Your Library

Window Over the Desk from Amazon 
 

Trust me, you'll want Liz's first collection of essays too!

Window Over the Sink from Amazon


Takeaway Truth


Liz's writing is lyrical and profound. If you haven't read her before—fiction or nonfiction—you're in for a treat.

Free Stones—Jonathon Stone Mysteries That Is

My friend James Moushon, an author, a book industry blogger, and a best friend to authors, has a free mystery ebook for you! 

Operation Camp Navajo, a Jonathon Stone Mystery, is free until November 5, 2021.

There are 17 short stories in the series, and each story will be FREE in the next few months. Check Amazon, HBS Author's Spotlight Blog, or James's Website for exact dates and details.

About Operation Camp Navajo

Jonathan Stone is a CIA agent who works domestically. He's assigned to the CLASSIFIED CIA DOT Division. His ops involve terrorism and espionage.

Camp Navajo Weapon Station near Flagstaff, Arizona, is robbed, and Stone and fellow agent Dale Oak are dispatched to the area to ensure that CIA weapons stored at the site are intact. Upon arrival, he finds the FBI has taken charge and has quickly caught the thieves.

Case closed. After a drive through the area and listening to the details of the crime from the FBI, things just don't add up. A complete search of the facilities finds explosives are missing. Stone is tasked with finding them before they are used.
 
Want to read more? Click here.

Check out the entire Jonathan Stone Mystery Series.

I think all are in Kindle Unlimited so if you're a subscriber, they're free reads. Lucky you!

Takeaway Truth

Remember, Operation Camp Navajo is free only until Nov. 5 so get your copy today.

If you're an author, thank James for his unflagging support.

Thank you, James! 

Rewards of Gratitude

It comes as no surprise that November, the month in which we celebrate Thanksgiving in the U.S.A., is also National Gratitude Month.

As many of you know, the past few months have been, well, more than challenging for me.

I found myself feeling very negative about life in general. Sure, I was physically tired, and that affected my moods, but being negative doesn't help. In fact, negativity can perpetuate the "down in the dumps" feeling.

Fortunately, there's a way one can overcome the tendency to be pessimistic. It's simple too.

Every morning when you're getting ready for the day, consciously think of 3 things fir which you are grateful. Seriously, think about each of those 3 things and acknowledge how grateful you are for those 3 things.

You can formalize this if you wish by writing the 3 items every morning or evening on whenever is a good time for you. There's a really neat Gratitude Journal on Amazon, the One-Minute Gratitude Journal, and it's only $6.99.

Think about it or write it down. Whatever works for you.

What this does is focus your attention on the positive things in your life rather than the negative. 

It's a way of seeing that the glass really is half full, not half empty.

When you focus on the positive, it improves your attitude. Do it often enough, and optimistic thoughts will come more quickly to you than pessimistic ones. 

If you always see the half-full glass, life will seem better. In fact, a positive attitude will improve your outlook on life and your ability to handle challenges.

Takeaway Truth

Since today is November 1, try this every day for the next 30. Be conscious of all that's good in your life. See if your overall attitude has improved by the end of the month. Btw, I'm grateful for those who read SlingWords. Have a great November!

Glass Image by HoldMyPixels from Pixabay.


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