Friday Facts About Turkeys

Image by Alban_Gogh from Pixabay

Inquiring minds want to know....

Is it true that turkeys are so dumb they'll look up at the sky when it's raining and drown?

Here's the answer to that and other pressing questions regarding the bird that graces the Thanksgiving tables across the country next week.

Of course, there are differences between wild turkeys and  turkeys raised for food. Here are a few facts about these birds.

1. Every year, 46 million farm-raised turkeys are sold for Thanksgiving.

2.  It's not true that turkeys can't fly. Wild turkeys can fly short distances at up to 55 mph. They can run up to 25 mph.

Image by Mikki Couch from Pixabay
3. The bare skin on a turkey's head and neck turn red when they're agitated. When excited, the skin turns blue.

4. Wild turkeys have acute eyesight that's better than 20/20, and they have a 270-degree field of vision. Oddly enough, they can see ultraviolet light and also see colors like we can. 

5. If you ever heard the gobble gobble call of wild turkeys, you'll never forget it. They communicate using over 20 different vocalizations.

6. Wild turkeys sleep in trees to stay safe from predaators.

7. A female turkey can hear a male turkey gobble from a mile away.

8. Turkeys and chickens come from the same family, but 45 million years of evolution separate them.

9. By 1900, turkeys were nearly extinct in North America. Their reintroduction was a conservationist's success.

Image by Nadine DoerlĂ© from Pixabay
10. Benjamin Franklin called the turkey, native to the U.S.,  "A bird of courage." He thought it would make a better national bird than the bald eagle. Obviously, his opinion wasn't shared.

TAKEAWAY TRUTH

I almost forgot to answer the question at the beginning. Turkeys are not dumb. Of course they won't drown if they look up when it's raining.

Whatever graces your Thanksgiving table, have a wonderful day.


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9 Thanksgiving Survival Tips

Happy Hump Day!

Thanksgiving is a week away.  Everyone loves this holiday because it's built around family and food. 

Usually you get to see family—maybe not all of them but a good representation of parents, grandparents, siblings, kids, and grandkids.

Often, friends may join the celebration too.

Too often, most of the work in coordinating the event and cooking the feast falls onto the woman of the house. 

Many women still take on the majority of the work either because they're perfectionists or their men are slow to volunteer.

With that thought in mind, I thought I'd give the "chief cook and bottle washer" some tips on how to enjoy the day and still cook up a fabulous meal that will delight your guests.

Today, you will sit down and design your Thanksgiving campaign as if you're a general with a planned objective and troops to carry out the campaign.

Then sit your "troops" down and go over your plans for the big day.

9 THANKSGIVING SURVIVAL TIPS

1. Write your menu. Check your pantry. Make a grocery list. for the big day. Assign a person to do the grocery shopping.

If you don't feel you have anyone capable of getting the items on your list, go with your volunteer and give them some needed training in obtaining groceries. That volunteer will bring the groceries into the house and store them appropriately. (Perhaps another training exercise?)

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2. Plan for guests. Will you be having overnight guests? Assign a "soldier" to prepare the guest room: check to make sure the guest bed has fresh linens, the guest bathroom is stocked, etc.  

Select games—board games, card games, video games, etc.—that families can play after the big dinner for entertainment..

3. Assign someone to set the dining table for the Thanksgiving dinner. 

If this will be on a table used only for formal occasions, your volunteer can set it in advance and carefully cover the set table with a clean sheet.

4. Look at your menu and assemble your sous chefs and workers. Assign duties. Decide what preparations can be done in advance, i.e., slicing and dicing vegetables, baking cakes, making and freezing dressing or other dishes that can be frozen and defrosted and cooked on the big day.

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5. Assign the clean-up crew so they know that they will be clearing the table, rinsing dishes, glasses, and flatware and loading the dishwasher or hand washing anything delicate.

6. Assign photographers for the day to capture candid moments of everyone including the chef and sous chefs.

7. Assign childcare entertainers to help with any young children who arrive. 

8. Thank your troops. As you end your meeting, be sure and thank them for their assistance because it shows that they love you and want you to be happy too.

(Sometimes, you have to state the obvious because children don't think about things the same way adults do. Just as the men in our lives may not realize how much work it is because we make it look so easy!!)

Often kids and significant others don't realize how tiring a big celebration is. I know you think they should see you need help without your having to ask, but that's just not the way the world works.

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9. Take a break. Excuse yourself while the clean-up ccrew takes care of the mess. Go to your bedroom and freshen up. 

In fact, take 15 minutes to lie down with your feet up. maybe read a little while you relax. Then check your makeup, fluff your hair, and rejoin the crowd.

TAKEAWAY TRUTH

Is this post meant to be taken seriously? Absolutely! We women should enjoy the day too, but who can enjoy anything when exhausted? Don't be passive aggressive. Simply focus on the outcome you want—a great day for all—then smile and explain what is needed to make that happen.



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Review - The Wrath of Becky - Netflix

I'll confess I have a quirky sense of humor, and this movie poster tickled my funny bone. I mean, I just had to watch a movie with this title, The Wrath of Becky.

Becky?!?! That name just doesn't go with wrath. Then there's the tag line, "Hell hath no fury like a 16-year-old scorned."

So let me tell you about this movie, a sequel to the 2020 film, Becky. This sequel, The Wrath of Becky, was a 2023 American action thriller directed by Matt Angel and Suzanne Coote

Mr. Angel actually wrote the screenplay based on a story he and Ms. Coote wrote. 

The first and second movies star Lulu Wilson as Becky, and Seann William Scott co-stars as Darryl Junion in the second film which premiered at South by Southwest film festival in March 2023 and then was  released in the U.S. in May 2023.

The first film was  received well by critics and audiences which is why the second film exists. After watching The Wrath of Becky, it's easy to see why the first film was so popular.

BLURBING THE MOVIE

Two years after she escaped a violent attack by Neo-Nazis on her family, 16-year-old Becky attempts to rebuild her life in the care of an older woman who is as tough as nails. However, when a violent group known as the Noble Men break into their home, attack them and take Becky's beloved dog, she goes after them, and hell has no fury like Becky's vengeance!

MY 2¢

This film is gory—I winced and closed my eyes at some scenes—but it's also wickedly funny and full of twists and turns. It was quite a surprise, and I think you might like it too.

TAKEAWAY TRUTH

If you're looking for something different and entertaining, you should watch The Wrath of Becky.


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Saturday Share - Let's Make Chuck Wagon Skillet Dinner

I love the convenience and ease of casseroles and one-pot dinners where all that's needed to make a balanced meal is a good salad and some good bread.

I thought I'd begin sharing some of my favorite one-pot meals which I often cook in a large skillet or Dutch oven.

Today's recipe is flexible in that you can swap out ingredients and/or add extra ingredients you particularly like. 

There really aren't any specific measurements in this recipe because I normally cook that way unless I'm trying some new recipe. At the end of this post, I'll include some options for you to consider.

I like to call this Chuck Wagon Skillet Dinner because I imagine it's something a trail drive cook might cook in an old cast iron Dutch oven with a heavy-gauge wire handle he'd suspend over an open fire.

My Mom had that type of Dutch oven and cooked in it for more than 60 years. She made everything from spaghetti to beans, soups, and stews of every kind. My brother has her Dutch oven. When I visit him at the farm, I sometimes think we should take it out of the cabinet and see if we could cook over an open flame.

Chuck Wagon Skillet Dinner

Ingredients

  • 1 pound ground beef
  • 1 medium onion, diced
  • 1 medium bell pepper, diced
  • 2-3 cups diced potatoes (*1)
  • 1 can pinto beans, drained (*2)
  • 1 cup frozen whole kernel corn (*3)
  • 1 cup Pace's Picante (*4)
  • 1 teaspoon salt
  • 1/8 to 1/4 teaspoon ground black pepper
  • 1 tablespoon chili powder
  • 2 teaspoons cumin
  • 1-2 cups beef broth based on whether you like it very "soupy" (*5)
  • Slurry mixture of 2 tablespoons AP flour and 1/4 cup cold water (*6)

Directions

1. In a large skillet or Dutch oven, brown the ground beef. Before it's completely done, add the onion and the bell pepper. Continue cooking over medium heat until the veggies are soft.

2. Add the potatoes and cook, stirring to keep the mixture from sticking. After a few minutes, add the salt, black pepper, chili powder, and cumin. Stir to distribute the seasonings.

3. Add the picante and broth. Stir to mix. Than add the corn and drained pinto beans. Stir again.
4. Simmer over low heat at least 30 minutes.

5. Mix 2 tablespoons of AP flour in 1/4 cup cold water. Stir it until flour and water are blended well. Turn the heat up on your skillet and pour the slurry into the mixture. Stir to mix well and heat until the slurry has magically thickened the "gravy."

6. Serve with one of these "breads": heated tortillla chips, heated corn or flour tortillas, cornbread, or a crusty artisan bread like French, Italian, or sourdough.

OPTIONS

(*1) Potatoes ingredient can be changed to rice. If leftover rice, add after thickening the gravy and simmer for 5 extra minutes to heat the rice through. If using raw rice, add after all the other ingredients and add 1/2 to 1 cup more broth then simmer for 40 minutes. 

(*2) Instead of pinto beans, you can add any kind of canned beans or a mixture of varieties. Just be sure to rinse and drain the beans.

(*3) Fresh corn can be used instead of whole kernel corn. I don't use canned corn because I find it too sweet, but if the taste of canned corn doesn't bother you, go for it.

(*4) Instead of Pace's Picante, you can use any picante or salsa you like. Or, you can use 1 -2 cups fresh chopped tomatoes or 1 cup canned diced tomatoes (if you use canned tomatoes, add a pinch of sugar to counteract the citric acid in canned tomatoes). 

(*5) The amount of broth really depends on your personal taste. If you like a lot of gravy, use more and adjust the amount of slurry you add to thicken. If you like less, then adjust accordingly.

(*6) The slurry mixture used to thicken the stew can also be cornstarch and water.

TAKEAWAY TRUTH

The "triangle dinner bell" in the image to the right is made of wrought iron. It's what people on ranches and farms used to "ring" to call everyone to dinner.

I have one like it that my Dad made. He was a master of many skills including a bit of blacksmithing  when needed. The one he made hung on the porch at my parents' home, and it made the loudest, clangingest noise you ever heard!



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Review - A House of Dynamite - Netflix

I'll be honest. I really disliked the new Netflix offering, A House of Dynamite, and cannot recommend it to anyone.

This political thriller directed by Kathryn Bigelow  premiered in October 2025. I'm forced to wonder if the film, derivative of many of the 1960s offerings mining the same "nuclear war by accident" material—ever heard of the Henry Fonda movie Failsafe?—was designed to play upon the fear many Americans have at this time in our history.

Rather than political thriller, I think this film should be labeled psychological suspense with a bushel of paranoia. Is it me or is there thinly disguised political opinions underpinning this film.

I don't know about you, but I watch movies to be entertained, and this movie was not entertaining.

BLURB

 "The film follows the U.S. President and his advisors as they race against the clock to determine the origin of a single, unattributed missile launch and decide on a response, exploring the extreme pressure and impossible decisions involved."

After the dramatic opening that incites your curiosity, the film descends into paranoia and becomes mostly a cliche as it presents the usual terror in the streets as portrayed in most disaster movies. The ending reminded me of 2 other movies—the third Terminator film when the adult John Connor and his love interest end up as the leaders of the destroyed world, and the first War Games film when all the bombs were supposedly unleashed—although in War Games there was an optimistic ending.

TAKEAWAY TRUTH

Some people like to discuss the odds of thermonuclear war. Not me. Life is difficult enough without obsessing about something like that over which you have absolutely no control.

If you like movies like this, then you'll probably have a different opinion of A House of Dynamite. Feel free to leave a comment and let me know what you think about this movie.


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Monday Magic - Free App - Audio Editing and Recording

Today I'm hoping you'll try Audacity, the world's most popular audio editing and recording app.

You may not believe this but Audacity is FREE. That's right. It costs absolutely zero dollars.

WHAT IS AUDACITY?

It's the world’s most popular free software for recording and editing audio. If you're producing music, a podcast, or just playing around with sound, you should try Audacity.

Why? Because it's for anyone who wants to get creative with sound. Of course, it’s perfect for anyone who needs to quickly edit or export audio, for any reason.

Audacity has always been and will always remain free for everyone. because it's open source. That means its source code remains open to anyone to view or modify, and there is a dedicated worldwide community of passionate audio lovers who have collaborated to make Audacity the treasure it is today.

Give it a try. Simply go to the Audacity website. Read the information there and download if you're ready.

TAKEAWAY TRUTH

It's getting harder and harder to find excellent software that's free. Thankfully, Audacity remains to fill the audio needs of those who are budget conscious.


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Sunday Thoughts - Dogs Are Awesome

In my book, April Fool Proposition, the heroine and hero get a "mutual" dog that I modeled after Freddie, our daughter's golden doodle.

At left, you can see Freddie in a birthday photo from a few years ago. He's all grown up now and is the most intelligent, loving dog one could hope to have.

I've written a few books with dogs as characters because I love dogs. If you're looking for unconditional love, then you need to get a dog.

As a dog lover—no offense to cats and cat lovers—I want to share some of my favorite dog quotes. I think they prove my point that dogs are awesome.

The average dog is a nicer person than the average person. Andy Rooney

If I have any beliefs about immortality, it is that certain dogs I have known will go to heaven, and very, very few persons. James Thurber

Ever consider what our dogs must think of us? I mean, here we come back from a grocery store with the most amazing haulchicken, pork, half a cow. They must think we're the greatest hunters on earth! Anne Tyler

You can say any foolish thing to a dog, and the dog will give you a look that says, "Wow, you're right! I never would've thought of that!' Dave Barry

I've seen a look in dogs' eyes, a quickly vanishing look of amazed contempt, and I am convinced that basically dogs think humans are nuts. John Steinbeck

A dog teaches a boy fidelity, perseverance, and to turn around three times before lying down. Robert Benchley

Nothing in the world is friendlier than a wet dog. Anonymous 

If you pick up a starving dog and make him prosperous, he will not bite you; that is the principal difference between a dog and a man. Mark Twain

Dogs are better than human beings because they know but do not tell. Emily Dickinson

Dogs do speak, but only to those who know how to listen. Orhan Pamuk

Handle every stressful situation like a dog. If you can=t eat or play with it, just pee on it and walk away. Anonymous

TAKEAWAY TRUTH

If there are no dogs in Heaven, then when I die I want to go where they went. Will Rogers

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Saturday Share - Let's Make Honey Bun Cake

 When I was a kid, my older brother Vernon loved honey buns. This was a snack cake made created in North Carolina by the Griffin Pie Company back in the 1950s.

By the time honey buns reached our state, they came from Flowers Foods. I don't know if this was a licensed product or a merger of companies.

I do know that my brother's lifelong love for this golden brown treat still makes me smile. Little boys—and girls—grow up but they don't abandon the delights of childhood.

I think these snack cakes found at convenience stores are now made and sold by Little Debbie.

GENESIS OF HONEY BUN CAKE

Southern home cooks are always looking for ways to recreate something popular which is how the Honey Bun Cake came into being. Today's recipe was in my sister-in-law's collection. Judy was an amazing home chef. I don't think she ever made anything that wasn't mouthwateringly delicious even though she often used a box cake mix because she was a busy woman and needed timesaving methods.

By the way, you'll be serving the cake in the baking pan so if a "pretty" table is important to you, invest in a pretty baking pan for your casseroles and cakes.

You can buy Honey Buns but the taste isn't the same.
Judy's Honey Bun Cake

Ingredients - Batter

1 yellow cake mix

3/4 cup vegetable oil

4 eggs

8 ounces sour cream

Ingredients - Filling

1/2 cup brown sugar

2 teaspoons cinnamon

1/3 cup chopped pecans

Pretty 9x13 Baking Dish from Amazon
Ingredients - Glaze

1/2 cup powdered sugar

1/2 teaspoon vanilla extract

2 teaspoons hot water

Directions

1. Preheat oven to 350° F. (175° C.). Prepare a 9"x13" baking pan by spraying with baking spray or lightly buttering. You'll be serving the cake from this pan.

2. Mix the batter ingredients well. The batter will be thick.

3. In a separate bowl, mix the filling ingredients.

4. Pour half of the batter into the baking dish and smooth. Sprinkle the filling over this. Then spread the rest of the batter on top.

5. Bake the cake for 35 to 40 minutes until cake is done. If in doubt, insert a toothpick into the middle of the cake top layer. If it comes out clean, it's done.

6. Remove from the oven and cool in the pain for about 15 minutes. While the cake is cooling, mis up the glaze. If the glaze is too thick add more hot water, 1 teaspoon at a time, stirring well after each until it is pourable. Using a skewer or fork, poke holes in the cake and evenly pour the glaze over the cake while it is still warm.

7. Cut into squares and serve. People go absolutely crazy over this cake.

TAKEAWAY TRUTH

This is a delicious dessert. It's not something you'd eat every day, but for special occasions, you can't beat it. Brew some coffee to go along with the cake. Bon appetite!

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